tuesday's thoughts L0v3


























This is an overrated, over-perceived and over-valued topic.. but its a topic that still struck many chords in many hearts.
Even before the bible, back to the stone ages when the 1st recorded communication between humans.. love has been a topic.

Many had tried to define it yet it still eludes definition.

Let me try...

Hmm..2 inperfect beings brought together to bring out each other's perfection. It's a feeling of choice yet renders you powerless to reject. It's bitter yet sweet, it causes hurt and pain yet brings you laughter and joy. It brings you hatred and anger at the same time gives you peace and bliss. It avoids you when seeked but finds you when you let go. It corners you but opens up a whole new world to you.


It's simple yet inexplicable

Contradicting eh?

monday's thoughts Mirror image


























There are bound to be times in life that jerks you out of your seat and makes you realise that certain things are not worth that much fighting anymore.
After numerous rounds in the ring.. even the world's best boxer do get tired & exhausted. Drained of energy.. and fighting spirit. He ought to be giving his best and last shot before he finally throws in the towel.

When you look at the mirror.. do you only see yourself? Or will you notice the mirror design, its frame, the background behind you, the surroundings...?

Life can be pretty conniving at times, ya?








friday's thoughts Killing 5 Mins...

It's friday.. the weekend is looming.. a few minutes more till the clock hits 6pm.. didn't realise a few minutes seems to take ages.. gotta find something to kill time...


hehee..




































friday's thoughtsTwingly


























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thurday's thoughts CNY





























Nothing much to update lately.. just back to work after 4 much-needed days of CNY (Chinese New Year) holiday.

Still kinda in a holiday mood... things are moving pretty slowly in office and many are still on leave.. till next monday I presume.

Well, CNY is practically over for most people thought 'officially' CNY last for a total of 15 days.

Nothing news-worthy to blog about the past few days.. The usual visiting relatives, collecting the ever-shrinking angpows (Red Packets with $$ inside), feasting on steamboat, cookies, pastries, sweets, nuts, Bakkwa and Yu Sheng.

Find it rather amusing that those once-a-year relatives can religiously year after year after year ask the same questions and getting the same answers and still seemed surprised at the answers.

Anyway, felt the mood this year is nearly non-existent. Seems to be decreasing yearly.. wonder will it come a day where CNY in Singapore will only be look forward to for the long holiday and be celebrated with holidays abroad.

Reunion dinners will be ignored, exchanges of mandarin oranges and visiting will be forgotten, ang pows and traditional cookies are no where to be found.

The way I see how the mood and traditions have evolved when I was a kid till now.. it's a pretty scary probability.

How technology has eroded tradition....








wednesday's thoughts Chinese Horoscope - Sheep

( True!! )




The Sheep













Sheep simply want a bit of peace. They enjoy carrying on with life in their own quiet, individual way, content to be in the middle of it all rather than to be leading it. Sheep are quiet and calm people. They enjoy cultural things and focus much of their energy on artistic hobbies. Sheep are easygoing and relaxed, happy to be going with the flow.




Years of the Sheep
Sheep Years are eighth in the cycle following the Horse Years, and recur every twelfth year. The Chinese New Year does not fall on a specific date, so it is essential to check the calendar to find the exact date on which each Sheep Year actually begins.
1907*1919*1931*1943*1955*1967*1979*1991*2003



THE SIGN OF THE SHEEP
Sheep are nurturers. They enjoy taking care of other people. Like their animal counterpart, Sheep people are pretty calm individuals. Their personalities are quiet, reserved and soothing. They like to be in the company of others but do not wish to be in the middle of everything. They like standing in the back, watching contently from the sidelines, as others dazzle the company. Sheep will generally do better than they are aware because they are so good at keeping the peace and accomplishing the tasks at hand.



SHEEP FACTS:
People born in the Year of the Sheep share certain characteristics. The Sheep Sign is an abbreviated way of characterizing that individual’s personality. Following are features associated with the Sign of the Sheep.



Eight in order, Chinese name—YANG, sign of the arts
Hour—1pm-2:59pm Month—July



Western Counterpart—Cancer
CHARACTERISTICS
Smart. Artistic, Kind, Happy, Reserved, Insecure, Dependent



IN YOUR ELEMENT
The characteristics of the Sheep are tempered by one of the five Chinese elements of Metal, Water, Wood, Fire and Earth overlaying a 5-year cycle of characteristics on the original 12-year cycle.



THE METAL SHEEP 1931 AND 1991
Sheep often display a tough exterior to protect the fragile interior they are notorious for. Close friends and family of the Metal Sheep understand this is simply a front for those sensitive emotions tucked inside. Sheep can sometimes treat others the way they feel instead of the way they wish to be treated which can lead to a tendency to be overprotective and vulnerable. Metal Sheep, more than other Sheep, are culturally stimulated and hold a deep passion for the arts.



THE WATER SHEEP 1943 AND 2003
Like their element, Water Sheep go with the flow of things, content to stroll through life like a Sunday evening walk. They are easy to get along with and live with and can make quite lovable roommates and companions. They enjoy the security of their homes and will generally plant their roots and stay in one place. They are well-spoken and witty, but lack self-confidence. They can pout when they don’t get their way.



THE WOOD SHEEP 195S AND 2015
Generally surrounded by a bevy of friends, these Sheep enjoy being in the midst of a crowd. People flock to these Sheep, possibly because they are so compassionate and helpful. Their sincerity can be taken advantage of and Wood Sheep may get their feelings hurt by undeserving sympathy seekers. Sometimes, Wood Sheep need to suppress their caring ways and take care of themselves.



THE FIRE SHEEP 1907 AND 1967
Fire Sheep are not as likely to get their feelings hurt nor are they as likely to desire the approval of others as typical Sheep are. They are capable of taking care of themselves, standing up for themselves and putting themselves first. They are vivacious and charismatic, preferring theater to any of the other arts. Fire Sheep generally enjoy a tight circle of friends and family and enjoy the social limelight.



THE EARTH SHEEP 19l9 AND 1979
The Earth element gives the Sheep a grounded effect. Although he struggles with a lack of self-confidence, this Sheep is a very stable person. They are independent and practical, leaning more towards conservancy than liberality. An Earth Sheep’s family is his most important asset and he spends his life working hard to provide for his loved ones. Earth Sheep are born with a joy for life that generally becomes infectious as you get to know him.



HEALTH AND HABITAT

HEALTH
A Sheep’s serenity often prohibits him from health problems. Although they seem fragile on the outside, inside Sheep are quite healthy creatures. Happiness keeps the Sheep healthy. However, any sort of trouble or confrontation will send the Sheep’s stomach spinning, especially if it is due to a romantic problem. As happiness keeps the Sheep healthy, unhappiness makes him quite sick.



AT HOME WITH THE SHEEP
Sheep truly enjoy being at home. They spend their time there doing arts and crafts, cooking and knitting. Sheep are most comfortable on their couches in the privacy of their homes, relaxed and tranquil. Their homes are as simple as they like to feel. They are elegant and timeless, and their homes reflect their artistic flair. The Sheep will go to any expense to be comfortable and to enjoy convenience.



CAREER AND FINANCE

THE SHEEP AT WORK
Sheep people like the comfort of a crowd. They enjoy adding input and opinions but do not wish to take a lead position. Sheep will take a leadership role is asked, but generally prefer to be a part of the group. They do not seek positions of power or status as these things are not important to the Sheep.



MONEY AND THE SHEEP
Sheep generally appear well-off. They love to spend money but do not find comfort or satisfaction in material things. They do have a knack with money though, which is well-suited for a person who spends money like the Sheep does. Sheep are always dressed to a T, looking well-groomed and well-dressed.



SHEEP CAREERS
Those born ion the Year of the Sheep share the same kinds of goals and objectives in life. The occupations best suited for the Sheep are listed below:



SHEEP MAKE EXCELLENT:
Editors
Architects
Actors
Interior designers
Florists
Pediatricians
Hairdressers
Illustrators
Musicians
Daycare teachers
Art historians



CONGENIAL BUSINESS PARTNERS
Whether Sheep are compatible with their business partners depends on whether their signs are harmonious or antagonistic to those of their business partner. Considering the congruity of their own characters and the characters of their business partners can also be very useful.



Sheep ruled by Benefit From Are Antagonistic to
Metal Earth Sheep Fire Monkeys
Water Metal Rabbits Earth Roosters
Wood Water Horses Metal Tigers
Fire Wood Pigs Water Oxen
Earth Fire Snakes Wood Dogs
Leisurely activities and pleasures



LIKES AND DISLIKES
Since Sheep are born under the same Animal Sign, they often share likes and dislikes. Following are similar likes and dislikes of the Sheep personality.



Color Preference:
Pink, purple

Gems and Stones:
Moonstone, Sapphire, Jade

Suitable Gifts:
Bathrobe, broach, peppermint oil, seashells, massage, theater tickets

Hobbies and Pastimes:
Reading, watching movies, eating, drinking, swimming

Sheep Dislike:
Being separated from family and friends, conflict, not having the support of others



THE SHEEP ON VACATION
As Sheep find safety in numbers, they also like to travel with other people. Sheep enjoy guided tours of artistic places like museums, gardens or theaters. They are also drawn to water and thus enjoy vacationing at the beach or on a cruise.



FRIENDS AND ENEMIES
Sheep make great hosts. They can adapt to any situation and generally enjoy any company they keep. They like throwing parties, but do not want to be in the spotlight the whole time. Sheep are sociable creatures, but they must really get to know you and the territory before engaging in any sort of committed situation. They are private and do not generally tell you everything there is to know about them until they have tested the waters and are sure they want to reveal themselves to you. Therefore, becoming a close friend of the Sheep is a taxing process and many do not have the patience to wait. Consequently, the Sheep has many acquaintances and few really good friends.



Compatible Friends
Best Friends: Rabbits and Pigs
Mortal Enemy: Oxen



SHEEP PARENTS AND BABIES
Sheep are natural caregivers. They automatically turn on their parental instincts and take on parental responsibilities. They are family people who often have large families with unusual numbers of children. They blanket their children with love and affection. They expect their children to use their manners and to be polite and respectful to others.
Sheep generally have long-lasting, healthy relationships with their own parents. They often settle down close to where they grew up or close to their own parents so their children can be close to their grandparents. Often too, Sheep move elderly family members into their own homes to tae care of and nurture them back to health. They encourage their children to establish and maintain close relationships with family and stress the importance of this for the future.



SHEEP INFANT AND CHILD
Sheep children are very sensitive. They cry at the drop of a hat, especially if their feelings are hurt or they are embarrassed. Often they will cry to get what they want. They are dependent on their parents and love to be affectionate with their family, especially their parents. They do not exhibit a great deal of self-confidence so parents and teachers are generally responsible for encouraging them to bring out their artistic natures. They are well-behaved, well-mannered children, who despise aggression and conflict.



SHEEP PARENT/CHILD KINSHIPS
Some parents immediately click with their children and others find they will never have a close relationship no matter how hard they try make it happen. Following are compatibility ratings between Sheep parents and their children.



Sheep with Under the same roof Compatibility Rating
Rat differing opinions *
Ox too many temper tantrums *
Tiger will get better eventually **
Rabbit caring and attentive ***
Dragon happy parenting! ****
Snake supportive and giving ***
Horse great communication ****
Sheep sympathetic and sensitive ****
Monkey diverse viewpoints **
Rooster healthy **
Dog long lasting mutual respect ***
Pig kind and genuine ****
*uphill struggle **some complications ***easy bonding ****on the same wavelength



LOVERS AND SPOUSES
THE SHEEP LOVER
Sheep do not like to be alone. They are very family-oriented people. If you do not like children or big families, Sheep are not right for you. Sheep will give themselves entirely to the right person and will do everything they can to maintain a stable, loving, happy relationship.



MARRIAGE
Even though Sheep can be clingy and self-deprecating they are loving creatures who make great romantic partners. They are compassionate and kind, genuine and affectionate. A Sheep needs a partner who will be supportive and attentive and who will help him develop his self-confidence.



THE SHEEP LOVE PARTNER
Sheep are often unaware of even their own talents, but with encouragement and love they will bring those talents forth. Sheep crave a partner who makes them feel safe enough to try new things and who will give them the confidence they need to shine.



PARTNERS IN LOVE
Sheep*Rat
Sometimes tough, but keep at it.
Sheep*Ox
You may be physically attracted, but that’s about it.
Sheep*Tiger
You both walk on too many eggshells to maintain a stable partnership.
Sheep*Rabbit
Mutual respect, understanding, points of view…go for it!
Sheep*Dragon
Sexually attracted but not mentally or intellectually.
Sheep*Snake
Great friends and even better lovers.
Sheep*Horse
Love at first sight becomes so much more.
Sheep*Sheep
You understand each other perfectly. Wonder why?
Sheep*Monkey
Your differences could unite you.
Sheep*Rooster
A lot to overcome…may want5 to reconsider.
Sheep*Dog
A tiring union.
Sheep*Pig
You make great companions.



Love Partners at a Glance
Sheep with Tips on Togetherness Compatibility
Rat a bit distant *
Ox Don’t try it *
Tiger good for business, not for love **
Rabbit heavenly ****
Dragon could go either way **
Snake gratifying ***
Horse love at first sight ****
Sheep will be successful ***
Monkey take pointers from each other **
Rooster probably not *
Dog personality conflict *
Pig wonderful! ****
*dispute **keep working at it ***intense sexual attraction ****angelic



EAST MEETS WEST


ARIES SHEEP
These Sheep do better behind the scenes. They are obsessive in love, but make a strong, stable partner.



TAUREAN SHEEP
These Sheep are a bit materialistic and desire much wealth. Although they aren’t money hungry, they do out themselves and their own comfort before everyone else.



GEMINI SHEEP
Humorous and sociable, these Sheep are wonderful companions. They are quick thinkers who remember everything. These Sheep are most comfortable surrounded by family and friends.



CANCERIAN SHEEP
Kind, genuine and gentle, these Sheep display as much the power to give love as the need to get love. They can pressure themselves about being able to support their families, but always put family first.



LEONINE SHEEP
Fun to hang out with, these independent people are a bit more outgoing than other more tranquil Sheep. They are fair, just people who are honest and kind.



VIRGO SHEEP
Overly fussy with high expectations, these Sheep often expect too much of themselves and of others.



LIBRAN SHEEP
Libran Sheep are cultured and artistic. They are intellectual and sophisticated and finish what they start.



SCORPIO SHEEP
Scorpio gives the naturally placid Sheep a bit of aggression. It also encourages the Sheep to exhibit independence. The Scorpio Sheep is desirable and magnetic.



SAGITTARIAN SHEEP
These Sheep need to be self-supporting. They are content as long as they are pursuing or finishing whatever project they wish. They have the ability to take on and finish several projects at once.



CAPRICORN SHEEP
Generally solid as a rock, these Sheep have been known to let their air down for a night out every once in a while. They are practical and motivated individuals whose drive is insatiable.



AQUARIAN SHEEP
Wonderfully inventive and imaginative, these Sheep are true free spirits. They are vibrant people who live day to day, moment to moment.



PISCEAN SHEEP
These Sheep are gentle creatures who need a supportive partner to achieve their full potential. They are quite artistic and serve well as independent artists.

friday's thoughts Like a bloom...

Like a flower grows and blooms
love too does the same

Love may lead to shallow tomb
where flowers here will lay

Like a rose so perfect, so sweet
love is blind to all

Love is when two people meet
love is when they fall

Like a rock upon the shore
a person spends their life
love then shakes them to the core
the brings them so much strife

Upon the stone we sit and wonder
as days go passing by
how love can turn us all a blunder
then hurts us till we die

All alone no one but you
love can be so cruel

I still remember being true
to you and only you




























friday's thoughts Raining Inside





friday's thoughts Bored..




thurday's thoughts Samsung rules..







Looks pretty similar to a phone by Nokia.. don't you think?






There's finally Radio in Samsung!



thurday's thoughts Budget Day 2007

The much awaited day.. Budget Day in Singapore. We're all waiting for news and details about the 'Progress Package' to offset the upcoming GST (Goods & Services Tax) hike.

Though there has been alot of coverage in the past few months since the GST hike was revealed, hopefully cries of help for the middle-class sector will not be overlooked this time.

The system tends to give out most to the lower end of the income group and the least to the higher beings.. but from the 2 packages of the past, they have grossly overlooked the struggling "middle-earth people". They missed out from the fat paycheques of the system because they actually made just enough to support themselves and maybe a few little ones. Yet, they are not well-to-do enough not to feel the impact of the tax increases.

The sandwich-class.

Many are struggling to move up the social ladder and the timing of the tax hike might just add a few more steps to the ladder.

Ok.. let's wait for the news.
Here's the live
videolink.


thurday's thoughts Was thinking...


"If you want the rainbow, you must first learn to put up with the rain"
But what if the rainbow doesn't appear after the rain?? How much rain can you endure??



thurday's thoughts

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Yup.. finally, no more hard-to-remember .blogspot address.
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Alright.. shall update more again.
time for me to get some sleep..
it's almost 3am & I still got work tomorrow!!


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nitezzz...



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wednesday's thoughts
Day of Hearts



Yes.. the day has arrived. Where guys go broke and women rejoices. But in love... no one's a fool. nothing is too much and everything is worth it.
Happy Valentine's Day!

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tuesday's thoughts
Let's Brighten Up


Almost the lunar new year... bought some new clothes, shoes, pants.. giving my car a new coat of wax.. but something is still missing.

After days of thoughts.. I realise it's this!! My dear blog.

So, here u go.. something lighter, cleaner and hopefully faster to load. I've trashed out most of the junks and links. And of course... with a new look, comes a new name for my blog. Yes... it's simply: 'thoughts' (let you figure out why if you still scratching your head)

So, what you think about the new look??
Gimme your 'thoughts' (by the way... comments are now named as 'thought')!



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monday's thoughts
Seeing isn't believing

Was having coffee last night at East Coast and notice a security guard going around pointing a magnetic device to a circular point on the wall. It's a sort of checkpoint kinda stuff ensuring that the guards did their rounds and visited all the places he's supposed to patrol.

It got me thinking... TRUST is clearly a rarity in today's society. CCTV in a restaruants, offices and even shop space the size of a toilet. Had a friend who used to work in a printing shop the size of about a room, it had at least 7 cctvs with each one trained on every conceivable angle. Constantly surveying whatever is on the monitor. I even had the 'luxury' of doing a monthly report on the work done for the month!

Between friends as well.. I noticed many people though appeared buddies on the surface, seems to have reservations and doubts regarding each others' motives when it comes to money matters.

Between couples.. well though Trust is an essential component of any long lasting relationship, sadly all too often I see it missing as well. Many simple demanded it.. failing to realise that Trust is to be earned not given.

Quality of life, technology and wealth seems to have increase many folds over the decade.. yet the value of Man's words are on the steady decline. Has mankind became more sceptical or too scheming... I wonder.

Hope the day comes when 'I do' really means 'I do'... with no 'IFs', no 'BUTs', no 'ANDs'.


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friday's thoughts
A year to go...

Maybe it's age or maybe it's the company one keeps.. Wedding bells seems to be ringing all round lately.. between friends, colleagues and even ex-schoolmates. Can't help but feel abit pressured to start planning for a family of my own.

At a recent relative's son wedding, I was asked at least half a dozen times when 'It'll be my turn'? And I thought only gals get that kinda questions... barff..

The topic in studio has been revolving around marraige as well.. with Eleen putting on the finishing touches to her state of the art 'Online RSVP' system in her own wedding website! Wedding songs has been floating through the air as well.

And just 2 days back.. attended a friend's Solemmnisation at a hotel, it was beautiful.. simple yet graceful garden setting along a poolside... Coming up in June and August are another 2 long time friend's wedding dinners.

Been visiting sites like
www.singaporebrides.com It's a really informative and interesting site where you can virtually find almost anything you need there. Tons of link to photographers, hotel packages, printers, wedding gifts, wedding songs, proper procedure to getting registered, etc etc...

Well... I do hope I can reach my target of having a family by 28.. which just gives me a short year to save up.

So, help me out ya.. let me know if anyone has any freelance designing needed.. call me!!!




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thurday's thoughts
Ode to a friend

Just receive news that an overseas friend of mine was taken away in an accident in Sweden. She was only 28. Really sad. She had so much going for her... as to what I knew, she was just promoted last year to management... got to know a new guy, bought a new chevy and finally settled her loans.

Life is indeed so unpredictable. You never know when fate decides to play the Cruelty card and in a second.. your future, your life is robbed away.

Pretty scary thoughts. Everything you worked for, everyone you know, you love... gone, in a flash. Kinda like switching off you room light and letting darkness swarmed your vision and your thoughts.


Live each day like your last? Easier said than done. How do we managed without planning, without saving for a rainy day, without hopes or dreams? Try as I might, I do try to resolve any quarrels or unhappiness with loved ones before I sleep (though it's often not successful)... as there are alarmingly increasing cases of perfectly healthy people whom went to sleep, but never to wake up again..

So I guess its really important between couples.. married or not, to resolve issues before they go to bed (nothing should be 'un-solvable' between 2 people in love.. that's what I feel), or one party might just wake up to an eternal regret (touchwood).

As for my friend.. I do have much regrets. Regretted not telling her how appreciated she is, how her encouraging testimonials gave me that little lift when I was drowning in relationship woes. Regretted not fulfilling my promise to visit her.



Farewell my good friend.






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wednesday's thoughts
Answers

Things hasn't been going too well lately, feeling kinda troubled and perplexed. As usual, I can't get too concise about the root of the problems but many doubts has been surfacing. Doubts I thought would no longer exists as 'it' is moving on the the next stage where more important matters awaits. I find myself searching desperately for an answer but yet am afraid of the answer once I found it.

Or maybe I already do know the answer but had no courage to accept it and hence kept on deceiving myself. How I wish life is much simpler.. without so much complications and reservations.

Whatever happens... at least I'm sure my priority remains unchanged. That is.. to have a substantial amount of savings, be it for a rainy day or for certains 'bell' to start ringing'.


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tuesday's thoughts
Nike

Great Ad.. really hilarious!


monday's thoughts
Should you..

Marry someone whom you love.. or someone who loves you???





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saturday's thoughts
Hiazz..

Ever felt extremely excited about a certain thing, only to let it disappoint you completely when it happened? Or feel so passionate about something, only to be reciprocated with nonchalance?

I'm not sure what to make of it... certainly seems like a love and hate affair. What made it worse is that, there's nothing I could do nor could I voice it out. Try as I might, I'm just unable to comprehend it.









3 steps forward.. and 2 steps back. This journey is taking too long...